Monday, August 27, 2018

Week 2 of 52

August 19-25, 2018

On Monday my oldest learned how to take public transit to school. I feel like this is an important step in growing up and being able to become more independent.

On Tuesday I decluttered my plastic stuff. It had been driving me crazy - the containers were constantly falling out of the cabinet, while their corresponding lids lay in a mess in a drawer. Getting ready for back-to-school meant I had to deal with this situation because I need to access their lunch containers on a daily basis.

As usual, I forgot to get a good "before" photo, but here are most of the containers and their lids before I began the "find the matching lid" game.

After: all the lunch items and water bottles, (and water bottle caps!) are all in one place together. All the containers and their corresponding lids are in the same cupboard. 

Tuesday also included an intake interview for my oldest to see if he will qualify to attend a "PEERS" program. It was an interesting experience for me as I watched behind a one-way mirror. Later that day he went for 2 hours of Executive Functioning training and had an "awesome" session according to his teacher.


I took the kids swimming almost every day to help them get exercise, to build structure during our day, to cool off from the heat... so many benefits. DS2 passed all the YMCA swimming levels a year ahead of schedule so he's too young for the next level. DD and DS3 are doing the same level for the 3rd time, so hopefully all this summer swimming will help them finally pass it!


No "before" photo of this either, but I spent two afternoons this week helping to put my church's Resource Room back in order after our big church camp week. I'm one of those strange people who really enjoys taking a box with many things dumped in it and sorting it all neatly into its place. I also like washing dishes and folding laundry because I love the process of going from dirty and messy to clean and tidy. Here's the "after" photo:


On Thursday I surprised hubby with a date at an Escape Room. It was our first time going to one and I figured it was something we'd enjoy. We were given blindfolds, taken into a dark room, had the scenario explained, and given our first clue. We had chosen DaVinci's office (an 8/10 for difficulty) and were given 60 minutes to gather all the clues and escape. We found the flashlights and it took us about 10 minutes to figure out the first clue! Once we finally figured that out we moved along fairly well. When there were only 4 minutes left and we still had 2 clues to unlock we asked for a hint. We managed to escape the room with 3 minutes remaining!

Friday night and Saturday morning I was spoiled and allowed to stay in bed until I finished reading a whole book. The ultimate luxury!

Sunday, August 19, 2018

Week 1 of 52

August 12-18, 2018
The first week of my sabbatical started off quite strangely. On Saturday morning I was diagnosed with tonsillitis. I had suspected strep so was a little surprised,  but happy to take home the enormous pills I was to take for the next 10 days.

I slept all day Saturday, missing my mother's 70th birthday party, and all of Sunday. Monday I was awake more but had headaches, nausea, and more. I had been told I would be contagious for 48 hours and wouldn't start to feel well until after 72 hours - a very accurate forecast.

I had planned to help at my church's summer camp - a week of full day activities for 160 kids. I handle the administrative bits and any problems that arise, as well as being a trained First Aider. On Tuesday I was finally upright, eating, and free of headaches, and I made it in to camp from Wednesday-Friday.

Among other things this week, I caught up on my union email (I'm the vice-president, representing close to 400 library workers in Canada's 6th largest city) and updated the spreadsheet where I track the time I spend on union activities: 87.5 unpaid hours year-to-date. Friday night I attended a special meeting we had called to update a by-law that the executive feels does a disservice to members. Unfortunately a slight majority of those who showed up to vote felt otherwise and the by-law will stay in place for now.

Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday I dropped my oldest son off for a couple of hours each day of Executive Functioning training (for ADHD and Autism). The next oldest is serving as leader at the summer camp. He is small in stature but mighty in leadership skills. The two youngest are enjoying days filled with spiritual truths, fun music and games, and field trips.

Saturday morning coffee with an awesome friend of almost 12 years. I am blessed beyond measure to have her as one of my two besties. 

Saturday evening oldest son had his second video session of the week with his aunt, who is a clinician who works with people to improve executive functioning and emotional management skills. So that will be 8 hours of training for him this week. If that sounds like a lot, it's not. An "intensive" program would total 25 to 40 hours per week for 1 to 3 years. We don't have the funding for that.

Saturday, August 11, 2018

Sabbatical Year


Just over 4 years ago I enrolled in a program at work that would see me take a year off after 4 years of work. My employer calls it the "Deferred Salary Leave Plan. Other places call it a "four over five" - it's basically a sabbatical year. I was paid 80% of my salary over the four years with 20% being withheld each year and now being paid out to me. Or at least that was the plan... I ended up taking a caregiver leave for most of last year so it won't be quite 80%. But it will be a year. 52 weeks.

When I planned this leave I of course went to Pinterest and started making a list of all the things I wanted to do in my year "off."

My leave started on Saturday, August 11, 2018. I'm going to try to do a weekly update over the next 52 weeks so we can share this year together. I'll be starting my weeks on the Sunday.

Week 1: August 12-18, 2018

Week 2: August 19-25, 2018

Week 3: August 26-September 1, 2018

Week 4: September 2 - 8, 2018

Week 5: September 9-15, 2018

Week 6: September 16-22, 2018

Week 7: September 23-29, 2018

Week 8: September 30 - October 6, 2018

Week 9: October 7-13, 2018

Week 10: October 14-20, 2018

Week 11: October 21-27, 2018

Week 12: October 28 - November 3, 2018